the law clearly states; HE is to pay all money owed (thats why your court order says so).

1) sit down and write a letter. in it, give your contact info, case number, his info, arrears amount, the problem and ask them what they are doing about it.

Tell them they have no right to do so, and they are supposed to be going after the deadbeat parent. Ask them what the State and Federal Laws are on the matter. Ask them what the status and progress of enforcing the deadbeat to pay is on the file.

keep the letter short (VERY short), its more effective that way.

then take that ONE letter and FAX it to the following:
a) BOTH your states Attorney Generals (link is below)
b) BOTH your states Governors (link is below)
c) BOTH your states Regional FEDERAL Child Support Office (link is below)

phone calls are useless; they are ignored, denied and forgotten. mail ends up on someones “to do” pile, but FAXES are effective. its proof you sent it and proof they recieved it, therefor, they HAVE to address it. if you cant find a fax number (most are listed online) then just call them and ask for it.

if you hear nothing in a week, fax them again. fax them weekly if need be. its the squeaky wheel that gets the oil, if ya know what i mean. WHO CARES if you miff ‘em off, just keep at them until the problem is addressed.

2) Report his azz to the IRS (in writing), for he’s supporting himself, somehow. Tell them you strongly suspect him working under the table to avoid a child support order.

3) Report his azz to the Social Security Office if he’s been using others SS#.

4) post his DEADBEAT FACE on a DEADBEAT SITE online.

some links for you; just click on your state and find the subject you need.

DEADBEATS

INTERSTATE CASES
LONG ARM ACT (UIFSA) for INTERSTATE

CHILD SUPPORT CALCULATOR

FED FAQ

YOUR STATES CS POLICY AND STATE SITES & OFFICES

ABANDONMENT (NO SHOW PARENTS)

NOT ALL PARENTS LOVE THEIR CHILDREN
And “RATIONAL LIES”

FREE LEGAL HELP IN YOUR STATE
(just click on your state to find contact info)

LAWS and INFO (change the state to yours)

STATS

FINDING DEADBEATS
(and background cks to find them)&

FED AGENCIES

REGIONAL FEDERAL CHILD SUPPORT OFFICES

FACTS AND REGIONAL FEDERAL CS OFFICE INFO

SSI AND DISABILITY
FOR CHILD SUPPORT

FIND YOUR REPS

CHILD SUPPORT LIEN NETWORK
(some states work with them)
COLLECTORS

TAX INFO

REPORT DEADBEATS (AND EMPLOYERS)
WORKING UNDER THE TABLE
(in writing, to your local and federal IRS offices),,id=106778,00.html

REPORT A DEADBEAT USING OTHERS
SS# TO AVOID CHILD SUPPORT or FILING TAXES
WITH OTHERS SS#

SEX OFFENDERS

~Income-withholding from non-custodial parent

~License suspension of the non-custodial parent if their income can’t be attached with a garnish and are at least 3 months late on payment

~Tax refund intercept of non-custodial parent

~passport denial of non-custodial parent if they owe more than $5,000

~Seizure of financial assets of non-custodial parent

~Publication of name of non-custodial parents who are at least 30 days late

~Child Support Recovery Act-the federal law makes it a crime to deliberately not pay support for a child who lives in another state, if the non-custodial parent owes more than $5,000 in over-due support

All of the stuff that has happened to you, only should happen to the non-custodial parent as told here in my handbook. I would contact a lawyer ASAP. I would also contact your governer

I have a website to further explain

The home site to that site is

but again I am in Pa and all state laws are different you could try contacting them and asking if your state is different maybe they could give you some advice.
Did you also try your Domestic relations office in your courthouse?
I hope I was some help to you good luck!

But honey, if you only received public assistance for a year, how did the unpaid support (payable by the father to social services) rise to $10,000? There is either something wrong with your story, or something wrong with the social assistance records. Time to retain a lawyer..